Love, one word that describes many emotions. Love can be for anybody or anything. Love is an emotion not many can express. Love can be for family, pets, place, that special person, etc. Love is one such emotion that can teach you the most important lessons in one’s life. Love is that feeling that becomes the very foundation of a relationship without which a relationship just becomes mechanical. The three most essential elements for a successful relationship are LOVE, TRUST & UNDERSTANDING.
Love is that beautiful feeling that would make you smile like an idiot for no reason when you are together and the same memories of the person would make you burst into tears when you are apart. Love creates many unforgettable memories when this love succeeds these memories are blissful to remember, but when it fails the same memories become sorrowful. Love can make you feel happiest when you are together and saddest when separated.
I believe the word love would bring back memories in every person’s life, good or bad but I feel everybody has come across love. Relationships are an essential part of everyone’s life, everybody needs somebody or the other. Relationships are always not a success, many people fail in love. There are several reasons why a relationship does not last. One such reason for a relationship to fail is jealousy or insecurity. As little it may sound, it plays a huge role in relationships, which ignored becomes the major reason for a relationship to end.
JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
Jealousy and insecurity have a very thin line which differentiates them both. Jealousy is usually due to external factors, whereas insecurity arises due to internal factors. A simple example is when a girl is spending time with her friend more than her boyfriend, the boy is jealous because he can not spend more time with her. This is jealousy, whereas in the same scenario if the boy feels that his girl might be cheating him, This can be called as insecurities. They usually arise due to a lack of trust, lack of communication, etc. Insecurities are harmful to Love. For love to last jealousy is fine, in fact where there is love, there is jealousy, but it’s not the same with insecurities.
WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL?
One thing has to be made clear, that is it’s not loving that fails it’s the people in the relationship who fail to make love stronger than their differences. People even when getting separated still have feelings for each other, it is just that their differences have won over their love.
The majority of the relationships fail because of a lack of communication. If partners could only communicate better would their differences look smaller in front of their love? It is only when u don’t communicate properly that problems like Insecurities, Trust issues, etc arise.
Love, as beautiful as it sounds, has its dark side too. Love to last requires sacrifices, which in the modern day is very difficult to find. For a relationship to last, people must be willing to make sacrifices for each other if required.
KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP:
Love is complicated, making a relationship work may be hard sometimes but if there is love then nothing is impossible. For a relationship to last you must always trust your partner, support them in their endeavors, comfort them in their sorrows, care for them, give them little surprises, etc. The list may seem long but when its love, it’s never enough.
EXPECTATIONS IN LOVE: BOON OR BANE?
Expectations are the mother of the destruction of relationships. Expectations when not met often lead to disappointments, which sometimes become a reason for a relationship to fail. The expectation is a Bane to me, expectations usually set up a standard in the mind which when not met often leads to grave disappointments.
Love is one such feeling which must be free from expectations otherwise can prove harmful to a relationship. Love is a blessing that everyone gets but only a few get to be in.
AM I REALLY IN LOVE?
You know it’s love when spending time with them is all you want.
You know it’s love when you don’t want your first ride to come to an end.
You know it’s love when you realize it’s this person that you want to spend the rest of your life with.
You know it’s love, when you smile whenever you think about them.
You know it’s love when the thought of losing them wets your eyes.
You know it’s love when all you want to hear is them calling you mine.
WHAT LOVE FEELS LIKE?
I don’t know whether to call this feeling a blessing or a curse.
Happiness like we’ve never felt before or,
Pain that we never expected for.
Dreams which make us smile or reality that breaks us apart.
Love is what brings us together, Differences is what tears us apart.