Real love story of a boy, Who could not find his love

” A Beautiful feeling love”

WHAT IS LOVE? I say about what is love..then I say love is a beautiful feeling and no other feeling like this in this world. A person can do anything for this but one thing love does not only love for a girl..if you say about love then..there are different means of love… Love for our parents, love for our friends, love for anything. But only those people understand about love who love someone. If I say about myself, then I feel the power of love, when she come in my life. Real love story of a boy

Real love story of a boy, Who could not find his love

MY FIRST AND LAST LOVE

A girl my who is my heart, my everything comes in my life 2 years ago. first, we meet on Instagram then after 1 month, we meet at Ajmer dargah, and that time I was feeling awesome. We see each other for the first time and our eyes filled full of tears. She comes there with her parents. So we can’t meet directly. I follow, means walking behind her everywhere, where she goes.
Exactly 2 hours we live together. And at last time when she was going then she propose to me… And I see her eyes, her both eyes is full of tear.

Real love story of a boy, Who could not find his love

SIDE EFFECTS OF LOVE

after the first meeting, we meet again after 1 month and then every month we meet.
Those 2 year is a golden moment for my life.
love is beautiful when both love each other and live together a lifetime. At last when the moments come when someone leaves about any reason. That moment is very dangerous for him.
In my love story, after 2 years in February 2018, her marriage comes and this is killing moment for my life. I feel like no one for me in this world, I feel very alone and I was going for suicide on the railway track. But then suddenly my mobile rang, I see my screen, there was my father call. I received this call and after talking to him.
I thought if I died then how about my father and my mom. Then my mind set up change for some time and directly I go home and see my parents face and then I realize love is not when you love a girl, parents love her child is another meaning of love. I can’t say about those times who spend me after her marriage. I spent 6 months in my room alone. I forget all of my friends, relatives and all.
I recovered after 1 year then I decided love for everything but can’t love a girl when marriage is not possible… This is my small story.

LOVEReal love story of a boy

Love Has Stages But No Ages

 

Can love be defined in words? Can love be measured with any equipment? No, it can only be expressed and felt.love has stages but no ages, Love is not just a four-letter word but a bunch of emotions and feelings. Love isn’t complex, but sure the people make it tough and complex to even understand. love has stages but no ages, It’s a gift to us from the universe which we most of the time don’t value. Oh well, that’s the human tendency to overlook all the good things they have got. But do we even ever try to see the love, yes I mean of course “feel the love” that the other person is trying to give us? love has stages but no ages, But why do we overlook it? In today’s generation, people are trying to be independent and which is surely a good thing but is being misinterpreted by most of them. Love has stages but no ages, Today everyone is in a race for getting the glory of success which here is directly proportional to the bank balance, and no doubt it is in turn directly proportional to being independent and this is a race in which we have forgotten what love feels like.

love has no age
Though love is not only about bringing fancy gifts for each other or about having those “goals” tagged pictures but of course more of spending time and having those quality moments where they both get to understand each other more and yes more than that as well. It does not have any boundaries and sure when it goes beyond the limit it wins. Well, love has stages but no ages.
When my grandfather was young, young as between the ages of 6 to 7 he requested his parents to get him a pet and that to a dog. After a lot of hustle-bustle, he finally was allowed to get a German Shepherd. I don’t know why every other person has a crush on dogs! Well my this question was answered by my grandfather only. He told me that whenever anyone pets any animal, they both exchange a part of their feelings, emotions, and heart that ties those cords of love, and this time I assure you that this is the purest love. The purest form of love you can ever get from anyone and from what he has ever received. This is the one best thing that even after those bad days they are always with you, by your side, making the scenario cozy and lovable. For time being I thought to date a Golden Retriever or a German Shepherd because I was so impressed with this love story.

love has no age
When he entered in his teenage he made a friend, a female friend whom he admired a lot as he found her personality a lot attractive and she lived in his neighborhood as which was plus point since whenever he felt low or wanted to play his first option was always going her house and then spending time and studying as well. Eventually, with the growing time, they became best friends. Since they have been spending a lot of time playing and for instance she was his first female friend in his growing stage. They both had a sense of belonging for each other which made their friendship strong and they were quite comfortable with each other which also made them speak the truth always to each other
We have always heard that love affairs weren’t common during those times but here the story was different. When they both entered their adulthood they both fell in love though they had different colleges and then different jobs but what worked here was the trust and the sense of understanding, obviously what they have developed with the moving time and growing years. These factors form the roots of relationships which builds the strength of every other factor.
Though love marriages were also not common at that time, they figured out some way of disclosing this in front of their parents which required guts from both sides. Well, here they learned that when love stands with truth it always wins. After a few years, they got married that must have been sounded quite obvious over here but in today’s time, it isn’t. People are having relationships or partners to pass their spare time which is just for namesake and this is the reason why most of them end without any end.

love has no age
Well, you must be wondering about the dog, sad but he passed away in my grandfather’s teenage. He was quite old at that time but he also taught us a lesson. A lesson of eternal love. Yes, love shouldn’t be materialistic or situation bound but eternal. Eternal love has no limits and yes no end. It’s just the best and the most powerful feeling you could ever feel. And the one that even death could not separate them.

The Shape of Love | Love and its Forms | Understanding of Love

 

The Shape of Love

There is an age-old question asking ‘What is Love?’ since the dawn of civilization and times of great empires and kingdoms. It is even believed to be that love started way before the humankind emerged in this world, that is when God created Adam and Eve. So, does this old question of many eras have an answer? Has anyone given a single particular definition or answer to this, which is universally accepted by all? Well no. Many have tried to answer this question through various means of explanation, descriptions, stories, and definitions, but is it possible to explain love? Is there a way to give love a face and define its shape through a singular meaning and a string of words? All these questions are aroused around this particular concept which has bewildered many through the ages but never has been answered with full understanding and satisfaction without any denial, of every existing being in this world. Is it due to the various factors and philosophical characteristics of love itself that these many doubts, confusion, and uncertainties have raised?

shape of love

Love and its Forms

Born as a human being every individual is entitled to love. But love is not given and gained in the same form to everyone. It changes between individuals as do the individuals change in their character, appearance, personality, and various other distinct characteristics. This is the main reason why love could never be defined and explained universally. It tends to change and defer among every living being. It does not have to be only between two people; love is not quantitative and limited. It does not have to be between two different genders, it could also be between the same genders; there is no taboo in love. Love does not confine within the borders of a single species, it could be a bond between a human and a pet animal. It cannot be fenced by race, color, or appearance. Love doesn’t have any requirements or standards to be met. It is something that could never be forced to be done. It is an act of self-indulgence and interest. If compared to the characteristics of the first law of thermodynamics, love could be viewed as a form of energy. As the law states that “energy cannot be created nor be destroyed”, well if you understand it love is also similar to this, you could not forcefully create love or destroy the love someone has for another. Hence love doesn’t have a single form or definitive shape. It transforms, reshapes, evolves, and melds itself among beings.

understanding of love

Understanding Of Love

Love and the expressions of it could vary on how it is conveyed. ‘I love you’ and ‘I am in love with you’, are both different ways of expressing the type of love that is intended in the context or relationship with the person that the conversation is being held with; both of the phrases express different feelings and are not the same. Saying that you love someone could be a form of general expression and could be said to any type of individual irrelevant of relationship and aiding factors, conveying the affection and care you have towards the person without expecting the same in return. But when you say that you are ‘in love’ with someone it expresses the feeling that the feeling is shared between two individuals who are in love and mutual and will not be of any meaning if you do not receive the same from the person concerned. It is personal and shared with a single person who could be a partner, spouse, or lover irrespective of the factors of the outlook of that person. Love that is expressed through action gets varied and given shape and form when a higher form of expression and output is required for the love. That is when gifts are given, grand gestures are made, intimacy is created, promises and bonds are made, matrimony is held, bodies are united and when new life is created, that is the act of love. That is why physical intercourse between two individuals with love is called ‘Making Love’, which is one of the most intimate acts of expressing love physically.

symptoms that show you are in love

Existence of Love

Love is a chronic phase in the lives of human beings which is fragmented into parts and spread throughout the lifespan of an individual irrelevant to the age, time, and necessity of it. It could never be fully understood, felt, and believed without experience. It is a phenomenon that can only be understood when experienced personally by oneself. It is not a simple action that could easily be explained using a verb such as running or talking and be understood by the related person that is listening. It has to happen on its own in an individual’s life and hence be felt and understood by that experience. Love does not confine itself in the circle of success or failure; it’s not an act that has a specific result to it. It is just the presence of it, the expression, the act, the feeling, and altogether the experience that is had, is love.
Love is a unique phenomenon. An individual has to experience love to feel its existence and give it a shape that can only be understood and perceived by that individual. That is the shape of love, the way it appears to us irrespective of all common sense, logic, and characteristics of the world and surroundings. It could never be universally standardized or generalized in appearance and feel.